1st Peace as a Global Language Conference Proceedings & Supplement

Empathy in the classroom
by Jane Joritz-Nakagawa    (Tsukuba University)


Abstract

In this paper I provide a brief summary of my bilingual talk "Fostering empathy in the EFL classroom". I also provide an outline of university EFL courses I teach that attempt to foster perspective taking. Perspective taking includes the teacher's ability to understand the perspectives of students, students' ability to understand each other, and students' attempts to take the perspectives of real or fictionalized persons found in literary and non-fiction works used as course materials. Persons interested in discussing this topic further or in sharing lesson plans are welcome to contact me via .

Keywords: empathy, perspective taking

Background and summary of conference presentation


At the short bilingual talk on "empathy" which I facilitated, participants discussed what it means to be empathetic, and how they might, as teachers or in other roles such as parents, classmates, or co-workers, foster empathy in their environments.
We distinguished between "sympathy" and "empathy." In sympathy, you share the feelings of, or "feel along with" the other. An example might be Americans and others feeling horror after September 11, 2001. Yet as noted by writers such as Ciaramicoli and Ketcham (2000) and Goleman (1995), empathy does not require sharing the other's feelings exactly but an ability to understand or be able to take the perspective of the other. That is to say, whether or not your feelings or perspective matches the other person's, to some extent you have an ability to enter the other's world. Empathy requires some emotional distance, and calls on "thinking" as well as "feeling" skills. To attempt to construct something close to another person's perspective requires effort, observation, listening, and imagination.
To try to illustrate empathy, we looked at a poem written by an elderly burakumin (1) Japanese female who describes her joy at finally learning, in her sunset years, how to read and write Japanese. The poem begins:

      Because my family was poor, I didn't go to school.
      So I didn't learn to write kana (2)

and later continues:

      I'm excited to find the characters
      I've learned.
      Because I've learned numbers,
      I enjoy going to supermarkets
      and the Thursday market,
      and I don't have to humiliate myself
      because I now can figure out
      my room number in a hotel.
      ...
      I wish I had ten more years to live    (Kitadai, 1995, pp. 15-16)

Although none of the participants had failed to learn native literacy skills as children, participants felt they could empathize with the speaker in the poem in some way at some level, for example, by remembering a time we felt humiliation as a result of not being able to do something, or feeling inadequate or "handicapped" for some reason in a particular situation. Although none of us were elderly, all of us have known elderly people and could attempt to construct what it might feel like to be near the end of one's life.
Participants agreed all persons naturally possess the ability to be empathetic, but perhaps to different degrees, and that life experiences might weaken this capacity. Childhood neglect and abuse, for example, is found in the backgrounds of many serial killers who are believed to lack empathetic feeling (Ciaramicoli and Ketcham, 2000).
Participants further agreed that skills required for empathy can be taught (for example, listening skills; observing non-verbal behavior; perspective-taking, etc.). Participants agreed that empathy was an important quality for an educator. It was also noted that to foster empathy between students (not just from teacher to students) was important.

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Applications


I will briefly describe a few techniques for creating a foundation for an empathy-infused classroom.

1. Pedagogical approach


My pedagogical approach combines elements of cooperative learning (as in Johnson, Johnson and Holubec, 1998; and Kagan, 1994), humanistic teaching (Moscowitz, 1978; Hadfield, 1992), student-centered approaches (Campbell and Kryszewska, 1992), stimulus based teaching (Woodward, 2002), and transformative learning (Cranton, 1994).
I am a non-Japanese teacher of English teaching Japanese university students in Japan. A teacher like myself who comes from a different background than her students needs to understand the students' native culture(s), as well as to be flexible, and to be a good listener and observer. A knowledge of personality types and learning styles (see for example Fairhurst and Fairhurst, 1995) is also useful for the empathetic teacher, as is Gardner's (Gardner, 1993) theory of multiple intelligences, to understand how students differ individually, have different needs, different strengths and talents, and different ways of working. When the teacher is able to "read" students appropriately, she can respond with more sensitivity and efficacy.
A knowledge of relevant pedagogical techniques can equip the teacher with tools needed for setting the stage for good interpersonal relationships and mutual understanding in the class. For further study, I especially recommend books on cooperative learning, a type of structured student peer group work, such as Kagan 1994 and Johnson, Johnson and Holubec, 1998.

2. Grouping students


During most of each lesson my students work in small groups. My class size varies, but 40 students per class is about typical or average. My university is typical in that English courses meet once per week for 90 minutes, and 30 class meetings plus two exam periods for the academic year is ordinary for national universities in Japan like my own.
Groups of 3 to 4 students create a working team that can pace itself to its membership's comfort zone. Larger (than 4 member) groups reduce the total talking time of each individual member and have a less intimate dynamic. Cooperative learning techniques (Kagan 1994 and Johnson, Johnson and Holubec, 1998) such as randomly rotating tasks and roles in the group, and giving students time limits (of equal size) for speaking, can ensure that all students have an equal chance to participate. Small groups can be given tasks more challenging than individual students might comfortably undertake; as the saying goes "two heads are better than one" (in Japan is a saying "three people have the wisdom of Buddha").
On the first day of class, I have students make (tent-shaped) name cards which sit on the desk. (If desks or tables are tiny, it is of course possible to use small flat name cards). These cards are a device not only to help all of us learn everyone's names, but also contain, on the inside, various personal data about the students (their contact info, hometowns, likes and dislikes etc.), which can be referred to during discussions or used for groupings. Most often, I group students (into groups of 3-4 people) every session by shuffling the name cards and randomly placing the cards on desks. This method is "random" except that I deliberately strive for gender and, if there are non-Japanese students in the course, ethnic diversity in the groups. (The name cards are color-coded for male/female so that the gender diverse groups can be made quickly without taking the time to actually read the names on the cards. Students can also assist in shuffling and placing the cards.) Other kinds of known diversity I consider when forming groups would include differences in age in students in the same course. (In Japan the students' academic year is typically reflected in their university-assigned student number, which is also written on the name card. Thus it is easy to tell who is a lst, 2nd, 3rd or 4th year student.)
Mixing up the cards each class session means students will have different group members to work with each time, so that over the course of the term they should have the chance to work with everyone. A "random" approach appears "fair" and also there may be a pleasant element of surprise each class meeting as group membership changes.
Before using the name card grouping approach, my first year students appeared uncomfortable deciding where to sit, and boys and girls tended to segregate themselves. My second year students tended to stay within cliques formed during the first year, or, if not, looked a little "lost." With the grouping by cards method, no student is ever "left out"; everyone has a group to sit with. Anonymous polls of my students over the past few years have indicated students are very satisfied with and even enthusiastic about the name card "lottery" method, feeling it's fair. Students also report that it's good for them to work with students of the opposite gender or meet other students they may feel too "shy" to approach on their own.

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3. Themes and activities


My courses include plenty of "ice breaker" activities and chances for students to exchange opinions, both orally and in writing, on a variety of topics. Many of the topics or subthemes are proposed by the students themselves.
Both because students may lack oral English ability beyond false beginner level and because they may not know their classmates well, we start out with simple activities which require students to exchange basic information about themselves (for example, telling about their hometowns, hobbies and so on). We slowly build on this foundation to include exchanging opinions on increasingly challenging topics.
Topics we have covered in the first year required English course have included youth culture, work/money, smoking, beauty, housework, school, romance, animals, and violence.
Youth culture is a good place to start as my students are generally 18-19 years old. They discuss themselves and their worlds. Subsequently, we try to see if there are trends in Japanese youth culture that also exist outside Japan
Each topic is generally approached roughly the following way: first students explore and discuss their own personal experiences in relation to the topic. Later (often in the 2nd session of 2 sessions) they attempt to view the topic from a larger perspective and from someone else's perspective. Thus for example for the topic "work" in session 1 students might talk about their part time jobs and jobs their associates have, whereas in session 2 the discussion will shift to, for example, homelessness in the developing and developed worlds (with which my students usually have no first hand experience). In session 1 students have a chance to get to know each other as they attempt to articulate their own perspectives in English while of course simultaneously practicing basic English skills. In session 2 there is a little bit more challenge linguistically and students engage in perspective taking (for example, most students have not experienced homelessness so they must imagine it and they may be asked to take the perspective of a homeless person).To give another example, with "animals" students might talk about pets they have had and animals they have eaten or "worn" in session 1, but in session 2 topics will include animal rights, vegetarianism, endangered species around the world and the like.
Activities include, especially in oral English classes, small group discussions and role plays preceded and/or followed by short English readings/writings on the topics. Reading and writing courses that I teach of course include more reading and writing, but also incorporate small group discussion and role play. For example, in a reading course students can discuss and roleplay the characters depicted in what they are reading. In a writing course they can write first from their own, then from another person's perspective. My students of all courses seem to especially enjoy discussion and role play activities. In fact, interacting with peers and learning new opinions is the most oft-cited "favorite element" of the course per the anonymous course evaluations.
Using the theme of the poem cited at the beginning of this paper, a student could role play an elderly illiterate woman and another student could role play the hotel or hospital receptionist's behavior toward her. In a writing course, a (written) story in which the illiterate woman interacts with other people and the environment could be created.
Varied activities and activities which require a range of skills, not merely linguistic ones (e.g., skills such as drawing, acting, musical, etc.) can help give all students a chance to "shine" in the class, assuming you will, of course, have students with varying talents. One source for collaborative classroom ideas taking into account multiple abilities is Kagan and Kagan, 1998.
Currently I teach first year required English as well as required and elective second year courses. The second year course topics are approached the same way, but the topics are slightly more challenging and have included: Materialism, multiculturalism, gender, family, growing old, stress and loneliness, and environmental destruction.
Activities which require students to take the perspective of other students in the class can be found in books such as Moscowitz (1978). One example is students interviewing each other but trying to answer as if they were their partner, not themselves.

4. Materials


Although I use a variety of materials, personal, literary, musical, and artistic works can be memorable not only due to their emotive qualities but also due to their structure. We all have experienced the memorability of songs or jingles when for example we can't get them out of our heads even when we'd like to be able to! I remember little of my junior high school French instruction other than the words and melody of the French national anthem, a film about everyday French life, and my teacher's moving, tearful account of how she met her husband in the war, ended up moving to the USA, and missed her native France.

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As springboards for student-initiated discussions and role plays, I use especially poems, song lyrics, and short nonfiction pieces which are often personal narratives. I increasingly use music as it is a favorite of students, song lyrics tend to be more easily retained compared to other kinds of input, and the song lyrics comprise personal narratives (useful as springboards for perspective taking). I tend to choose songs which illustrate a topic of personal and social significance. For example, Suzanne Vega's (1993) song "Luka" depicts child abuse from the child's perspective:

My name is Luka
I live on the second floor
I live upstairs from you
Yes I think you've seen me before

If you hear something late at night
Some kind of trouble, some kind of fight
Just don't ask me what it was

I think it's because I'm clumsy
I try not to talk too loud
Maybe it's because I'm crazy
I try not to act too proud

They only hit until you cry
And after that you don't ask why
You just don't argue anymore....

Madonna's (1986) song "Papa Don't Preach" depicts teenage pregnancy from the point of view of a pregnant teenage girl (rather than from the singer's perspective, just as Suzanne Vega, above, attempts to replicate a child's perspective). Everclear's (1997) song "Father of Mine" is a reportedly autobiographical song that depicts a violent, alcoholic father who abandoned his family when his son, now a father himself, was quite young. Edwin Starr's (1970) song "War," recently made popular again due to its appearance in a popular Jackie Chan film, attempts to describe war's effect on various persons in the lines: "War means tears in thousands of mother's eyes" and war makes former soldiers "disabled, bitter, and mean". Songs like these beg perspective taking from among viewpoints such as a child, the child's parents, and neighbors who know of the abuse of the child in Vega's song; the speaker as a child and as a man, and the perspective of the father and a beaten and abandoned mother in Everclear's song; effects of war on families in Starr's song; or the teen age daughter and her father in Madonna's song. Students can invent new characters to make a role play or scenario in which each person of a four person group could play a part based on the scenario emanating from the springboard work. For example, based on Madonna's song could be a role play or scenario containing characters such as the pregnant teen, her father, the father of her child, the girl's best friend, the girl's mother, etc.
Most of the materials serving as the springboard and model of English in use in my courses are found by me, but I do ask students on occasion to bring in materials for the class. The difficulty is for students to find level-appropriate materials on their own, as sometimes the materials they bring in (usually from the library or internet but written for native speakers, not language learners; language learner libraries are rare in the institutions I work in) are not really very comprehensible to themselves or the other students without a great deal of (too much) explanation/effort. When I have taught more advanced classes, students have greater success in finding materials as the range of materials within their comprehension range is greater, yet even in those (much rarer) classes students have stated on anonymous questionnaires that they prefer a balance of teacher and student selected material, versus entirely teacher or student selected. It takes some skill and experience to find language learning materials. It's my wish for linguistic level appropriateness and not a desire to "dominate" the class (I have the opposite desire in fact) that makes me choose many of the materials. In addition to role play and discussion, the students I teach currently enjoy puzzling over what lyrics, poems etc. might mean; this sort of activity, since it's challenging and multiple interpretations are possible, is ideal for group work and would of course precede perspective taking work.
In my English classes students propose most of the discussion questions and often the comprehension questions (e.g. for a reading) as well, and provide most of the content for the activities which follow (or sometimes precede) the "stimulus" used. Students also have the opportunity to propose topics and initiate projects. Thus, the students and I share in the course decision-making. One of the main "materials" for the courses is thus the students themselves — the ideas, discussions and role plays and other things they create and display in class.

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5. Assessment and findings


Assessment in all of my English courses focuses on two areas. 50% of the course grade is based on participation, and reflects the students' rate of attendance assuming they have participated actively and appropriately in class and completed the requested assignments. The other 50% of the grade is based on a group project or the average of two group project scores.
For group projects, each group chooses a different topic, which is subject to teacher approval. Next, each group prepares an oral presentation which might be a role play, panel discussion, group discussion, poster or OHP presentation, or balanced debate ending in a tie (3) , based on the chosen topic, with each group member having an equal speaking role on the presentation day. (For writing courses, the project would involve a written work, perhaps with oral class presentation being additional, and for reading courses, the presentation would be based on read material.) Social relevance/international importance is required of the theme chosen for the more advanced course/final project.
Assessment includes teacher, self and peer assessment. I find my own comments are usually quite minimal, as often the students themselves as well as peers have already pointed out the strengths and weaknesses of the work produced. Thus, even as an assessor, I find my "listening/observer" role to be very key to my work as a teacher.
In addition to formal assessment and the grading process that accompanies my job, each week I engage in assessment of several areas while observing my students work in teams. One area I observe of course is their use of English during the activity. Another area I observe is whether they are having any general difficulties with the assignment or task per se. But yet another area I am observing of course is the level of cooperation, social skill, peace and harmony that is manifested in the small groups. If there are any difficulties in any of these areas, either I or a student from another group discuss with the group the difficulty, ask the group to propose solutions, and follow up later to see if the adopted proposal was successful.
Japanese generally appear to have good listening skills and empathy (omoi-yari) is a valued trait in Japan (Stewart and Bennett 1991, pp. 150 - 169). Japanese are socialized more toward at least outwardly harmonious behaviors in many situations, such as "sharing the floor" when speaking. They may tend to express conflict less openly, but may express negative feelings in other ways (such as not attending class, or ignoring a disliked person). In my experience working with Japanese EFL students, courses proceed smoothly provided: a) I, the teacher, use appropriate grouping methods and give students ample time and opportunity to get acquainted b) goals and activity outcomes are clearly explained and are at a level appropriate for a group working together and c) activities are intrinsically stimulating and useful.
As I have become better (more experienced) at using cooperative learning and humanistic teaching, I, and the students, have been increasingly satisfied both with the classroom environment on an interpersonal level as well as the students' growing facility with English that results from the active nature of the course activities. I have found that by having students get to know each other in class, and by fostering an empathetic attitude through my, the teacher's, manner, choice of activities and classroom ground rules, that students' liking for the course and the other students in it can be quite high. Mutual understanding, mutual attraction, and empathy are linked. The finding of liking of other students being higher in cooperative learning courses has been reported elsewhere (Johnson and Johnson, 1989). Working cooperatively with other people to achieve goals has been shown to increase a person's overall psychological health, including heightening their perspective-taking abilities (Johnson and Johnson, 1989).

Conclusion


Above I have attempted to describe in brief our conference session and an outline of how I attempt to create university EFL courses based on empathetic relationships. The teacher can be empathetic towards students by taking an attentive role as observer and supporter, valuing students' voices and encouraging others in the class to value them, and giving students chances to work collaboratively with all other students enrolled in the course. Students can learn about each other in class by engaging in self-disclosure activities such as sharing personal histories orally or in writing and then attempting to see the world through each others' eyes. Further, students can attempt to take the perspectives of actors in human dramas reflected in poems, stories and non fiction articles to further hone empathic understanding.

Endnotes

(1) Burakumin refers to an outcast group of Japanese who traditionally have done work considered "impure" and "unclean" in old Japan. Discrimination against members of this group lingers in modern times.

(2) Kana is a Japanese phonetic alphabet.

(3) The approach to debate I learned in school could be roughly summarized as "demolish the opponent to the extent possible". However, this approach does not encourage listening to the other side and taking the other side's perspective (rather, it emphasizes "winning", even at the expense of learning from the other viewpoint). In my courses I prefer to emphasize perspective-taking and respect for opinions which differ from one's own. Further, complex problems never have only one legitimate point of view. Thus, "balanced" debates which conclude with the strong points of both of two sides (or of all sides if more than two) are more consonant with the course objectives, including the goals of fostering critical thinking as well as empathic understanding.

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